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Anything is possible when you have he right people to support you


Before you read this let your mind, soul and body not confuse the loyalty of friendship with the bond of blood, friends are never as important as family (no matter how big they suck at times).

So friends are the people we decide to meet and bond with in between this journey of birth and death. Some we trust , others we don’t maybe because of their characters, time stay, name them. Everyone needs a friend it’s healthy.

Without any fuss or delay I’ll start with those that I refer to as “uncertified journalists” ,these are the friends that carry all type of information and one funny thing about them is that they’ll never ask for your help nor share anything personal about themselves. These are the friends that will always be close to you and let you introduce them to your family but before you know it they have your family at hand🤦‍♀️. One day you decide to visit your distant cousins and you’ll find them there comfortably feeling at home. Their personality is always welcoming and blindly trustworthy, BEWARE of such species ,they’re the type that will help others bring you or your family down .

The other wild species are the “uncertified juries” .They will judge your dressing, your voice, your food, your smile, absolutely everything making you feel broken each time you see them. Such persons are always hurting in some way, they do that to feel superior giving themselves {false} self-worth, avoiding their faults by pointing them out on others and protecting themselves from being hurt by others. Such behaviors are rooted in the unconscious mind, you can also be a victim. Do not run away or avoid such people just talk to them or find someone to do so. They need help not your backs.

Then here comes the “unsupportive” type. Never let the lack of support deter your mission, the more you love your positive decisions, the less you need others to love them. Have you ever had that escapade of starting a business, opening a blog or deciding to face your fears only to realize that those around you don’t really approve or support you? It’s really hard dealing with the naysayers especially when they are so close to home. I remember asking a friend of mine if we could start a hustling business before the pandemic comes to an end and she was like ‘why would you do that’ ‘you don’t need money for happiness’ ‘you already have everything you need’ ‘you were not born for that’. It was so crushing , I felt so deflated . Whatever the conversation, if you currently have people in your life that don’t support your dreams it makes it incredibly challenging and seriously impacts your focusing ability. The best way to show compassion is listen to them and appreciate their perspective and say things like ‘ I’m sorry you feel that way’ . Plus whatever you do never stop sharing it to them be the unapologetically you and openly speak the truth don’t lie for the sake of peace.

whatever I write here does not justify my personality I can neither say I’m good friend nor bad all we need to grow is positivity. I got so much to write so I decided to divide this into two parts. The second part will be published next week .Enjoy your weekend 💕.


Published by speakoutloud

Being true to yourself and not pleasing the society is one thing that doesn't need a reminder. Fitting in is never a solution but when the situation gets tougher Speak It Out!


    1. they are not really bad because they want to remember some behaviors are rooted in he unconscious mind and you can also be victim so offer help where possible😊


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