Song:kitenge by nviiri the story teller
Around July i attended this occasion with some of my few friends who came along with their other friends. So to make the long story short, came by this guy who was so excited to see me or maybe found me funny(he couldn’t stop laughing each time our eyes met). Mind you i didn’t know this guy, so i got his contact from a friend and confronted him to know why.
The following day he called and we talked and he couldn’t just get enough of me. This guy that i know nothing about but thinks he knows something about me thanks to shallow friends who fed him up, asks me out on a DATE!! A DAAATE! we only talked for less than an hour and the next thing that clicked into his mind was a date… believe me not the call was dry ,no flirting just me asking questions on his previous day reactions. The funny thing was that after i declined his request, he then started confessing on how he was into me and couldn’t stop thinking about me. I felt dead …this guy didn’t even see my face on that previous day cause i had a mask on. Since when did love at first sight apply to the blind.
Personally dating has never been into my bucket list adventure but if that was a glimpse of it i’d rather stick to my closed fictional life.
Get to learn peoples behaviors and characters how they go on with their daily activities how they run their errands or how they expect people around them to. Let them know you if they want to, anything strong and lasting is based on a firm foundation.
Why confess feelings on the first day ,relax what is meant to be is meant to be no one controls fate.
The concept of ladies first should effectively apply here,
Befriend a girl,win her confidence and trust,be intentional with no selfish motive of dating her….
It’s only a desparate lady who will not see this and I promise you hell well served.
Buone feste. Vi amo tutti♥️